Climaxing together is all about patience, technique and balancing. If you can manage all three with your partner, half your battle is won. Here are four tricks to help you achieve explosive orgasms together.
Your guy can go on for longer during sexy time if he masturbates—say an hour—in advance. It will be easier for him to hold back the second time around, so you can take your time and orgasm together.
If peaking during sex is difficult for you, you can always try mutual masturbation. Use your hands to help him climax as he simultaneously returns the favour. This way, you can even tell your partner if you’re close, or whether you want to go slow or speed up.
While missionary may be your go-to position on a regular day, you need to switch it up if you want to come together. The female orgasm can be difficult to achieve, so a lot of clitoral stimulation is key. Girl-on-top or side-by-side are great positions and allow easy access to the clitoris.
Foreplay is important to build up the anticipation and brings you significantly closer to climaxing. A good way to get you both to crescendo is to perform oral on each other. Once you set the ball rolling, it won’t be long before you’re both seeing rainbows together.